Friday, July 16, 2010

MY WAY

IT IS MY WAY, PERIOD.......Nope, there aint no way imma be able to see another point of view on this particular issue. I do me. I'm the best qualified person to do so, I do believe. I don't harm or hurt anyone, i do not manipulate the will of another. I am responsible for me and i take full responsibility for me. I accept my rewards and or consequences for my action. I'm aware of the laws of the universal and i listen and strive to follow my intuition. I know MY right from wrong. My lifestyle works for me. My journey is just that, mine. I get to choose. I'm not asking anyone for permission to do anything that concerns only ME. I'm not asking for approval. Who does that?  I'm so grown, i call myself a grown ass mf'ing woman. My issue is that I have recently noticed that some of the people in my life feel as if they get to decide my life for me or at the least, that they know whats best for me. Whats crazy they sometimes get attitude if i don't do what they want, wow.  Last i checked, as i some what noted before this is MY Journey. It's my perspective that I'm here to experience life as i choose. Thus, my perception on this subject is that, It's really is all about me. Question is where did that concept I'm here to please someone other than me come from. When did it become a way of life that grown folks need permission from another adult any way or that someones know best for me outside of me. It's not that it's straight out stated,  it's unsolicited. It is in the action and it's sort of an assumed position one takes and uses subtle ways of manipulating their will with judgment, which to me shows a lack of consideration and appreciation of the person that they are deciding to direct/help though no one asked for help.Their intentions maybe to help but most often they hinder in more ways than one because it's not their journey to direct, thus possibly taking one off their journey. Often this interference causes confusion. Not to mention, again nothing was requested. Some cases, the unrequested interference wont be appreciated, wont be viewed as info that could potentially help because most are not open to it. Also, some know their path . Some though will submit to the imposed as well as the self imposed pressure, that they feel, lack of knowledge of self allows this, which creates lost will and that's another topic.
I could understand in the case of children or minors, they do needs adults input more often than not,but adults. Woo woo, come on, Grown men and women? if I am correct not only do I have free will but every being as well. I mean.... really though,Why do so many people really feel as if they can tell another to do anything unasked. How presumptuous is that? Why take that position? Why would anyone feel that their way for them is the way for me or anyone else. How egotistical is that...........Get a life. Step back, redirect the mirror, and take a look at self. My beliefs is to not violate any ones will. It goes against the universal law to manipulate another will. I allow. Now please note,I wouldn't not have a problem with a suggestion/guidance, if i asked. That's the catch!